Where insight and action meet
Bridging capability development and psychoeducation to empower individuals and organisations to grow with greater clarity, capability and confidence.
What We Do
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Talks, workshops, coaching, and training that build practical skills and confidence for individuals and organisations.
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Books, podcasts, curricula, and accessible content that deepen understanding of how people think, learn, relate, and grow.
Our Approach
Our approach is not deficit-based. We help people see themselves and others differently — turning insight into practical change, and strengthening relationships in ways that are both human and effective.
Core Focus
Our Story
A social enterprise focused on helping individuals, families, professionals, schools, workplaces, and communities thrive through better understanding, support, and skill-building.
What We Do
We work primarily in two areas: capability development and psychoeducation. Our approach is not deficit-based. It is strengths-based, relational, and grounded in practical transformation.
Transforming Lives sits at the intersection of strategy and empathy, education and transformation, and professional credibility and human connection. While neurodivergence is an important area of expertise, our broader themes are how people think, learn, relate, function, and grow.
Meet the Founder & CEO
Moonlake Lee is the Founder and CEO of Transforming Lives, a consultancy focused on capability development and psychoeducation through a strengths-based lens. She is also the Founder of Unlocking ADHD, a registered IPC charity in Singapore that supports ADHDers and their families through awareness, advocacy, and practical resources.
Diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50 — one year after her daughter received the same diagnosis — Moonlake brings both lived experience and strategic perspective to her work. Her background spans journalism, law, business, and technology law, and includes legal practice in Canada, entrepreneurship, angel investing, and social impact leadership.
Moonlake was a finalist for The Straits Times Singaporean of the Year 2022 in recognition of her contributions to the ADHD community. She is a member of the workgroup developing clinical practice guidelines for adult ADHD in Singapore and is training as an Executive Function Coach.
She was the Lead Editor for Differently Wired Minds, a SG60 commemorative book celebrating 60+ Singapore ADHDers (2025), and is a contributing author for the upcoming book Parent First, ADHD Later, published by Transforming Lives.
Our Values
We lead with what people can do, not what they can't.
Every programme, resource, and interaction is designed with people at the core.
We translate research and complexity into clear, actionable understanding.
Change happens through connection — with self, with others, with community.
Why Transforming Lives
We bring together rigorous frameworks with deep human understanding — insights are not just theoretical, but lived and actionable.
We don't just inform — we equip. Our work shifts perspectives, builds capacity, and creates lasting change.
Neurodivergence is a core area, but our lens covers executive function, relationships, coaching, and all of how people grow.
Work Together
What We Offer
Two pillars, one mission — turning insight into action through capability development and psychoeducation.
Capability Development
Practical, engaging programmes that help individuals and organisations develop the skills, mindsets, and behaviours to thrive.
Impactful, evidence-informed talks for conferences, organisations, schools, and community events.
Customised programmes that go beyond awareness into skill-building and practical application.
Expert facilitation for team conversations, strategy sessions, and professional development.
Practical programmes for parents navigating neurodivergence, executive function, and family dynamics.
Education and skills for individuals strengthening planning, focus, organisation, and self-regulation.
Strengths-based coaching supporting individuals in building clarity, capability, and confidence.
Psychoeducation
Accessible content and resources that build understanding for individuals, parents, professionals, and organisations.
Neurodivergence awareness programmes for educators, HR teams, and managers.
Specialised training for professionals working with neurodivergent individuals.
Who We Serve
Parents, individuals, and families navigating neurodivergence and personal growth.
Teachers and administrators building inclusive school communities.
HR leaders and managers creating neurodiverse-affirming environments.
Coaches, therapists, and allied health professionals deepening their practice.
Non-profits building inclusive services and programmes.
Participants in structured coaching or training seeking clarity and confidence.
Reach out and we'll help you find the right service for your needs.
Books & Resources
Accessible, evidence-informed books that bring psychoeducation to wider audiences — from families and individuals to professionals and communities.
Publishing
An upcoming book published by Transforming Lives — practical, compassionate guidance for parents navigating an ADHD diagnosis in the family.
A SG60 commemorative book celebrating 60+ Singapore ADHDers — edited by Moonlake Lee. Stories of resilience, creativity, and lived experience.
Newsletter
Moonlake Lee shares her lived experience and resources to manage ADHD and thrive. Published weekly on LinkedIn.
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Guides, articles, tools, and references to help you, your family, or your organisation grow with greater clarity and confidence.
For Individuals & Families
A plain-language guide to what executive function is, why it matters, and how to support it.
Practical prompts to help parents have meaningful conversations with their neurodivergent children.
An introduction to strengths-based thinking and how it transforms support for children and adults.
For Educators & Professionals
A practical framework for schools and workplaces building genuinely inclusive environments.
Evidence-informed strategies to support students with executive function differences.
A manager's guide to understanding and unlocking the potential of neurodivergent team members.
Curated Reads
Our curated list of the most valuable books for parents, professionals, and individuals.
Our most listened-to podcast episodes on executive function — practical and accessible.
A concise overview of the research behind strengths-based approaches.
Weekly Newsletter
Moonlake Lee shares her lived experience and the resources to manage ADHD and thrive. Published weekly on LinkedIn.
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On Stage & In Conversation
Moonlake Lee is a sought-after speaker, facilitator, and panellist on neurodivergence, ADHD, executive function, and strengths-based approaches.
Audiences
From corporate leadership teams and HR professionals to schools, community organisations, and media — every talk is tailored, evidence-informed, and grounded in lived experience.
Neurodiversity inclusion, executive function at work, strengths-based leadership, and building psychologically safe teams.
Understanding ADHD and neurodivergence in the classroom, supporting executive function, and working with families.
Parenting neurodivergent children, family communication, and practical strategies for everyday life.
Panel discussions, podcast appearances, and keynotes at conferences and public events.
Get in Touch
To book Moonlake for your event, conference, or organisation, send us a message and we'll get back to you within two business days.
Let's Talk
Every engagement begins with listening. Whether you have a specific project in mind or simply want to explore possibilities, we would love to hear from you.
Get in Touch
We work with individuals, families, schools, workplaces, and community organisations. Tell us what you're looking for and we'll find the best way forward.