Transforming Lives
Where insight and action meet
Bridging capability development and psychoeducation to empower individuals and organisations to grow with greater clarity, capability and confidence.
Where insight and action meet
Bridging capability development and psychoeducation to empower individuals and organisations to grow with greater clarity, capability and confidence.
Our Story
A social enterprise focused on helping individuals, families, professionals, schools, workplaces, and communities thrive through better understanding, support, and skill-building.
What We Do
We work primarily in two areas: capability development and psychoeducation.
Transforming Lives sits at the intersection of strategy and empathy, education and transformation, and professional credibility and human connection. While neurodivergence is an important area of expertise, our broader themes are how people think, learn, relate, function, and grow.
Our Approach
Our approach is not deficit-based. We help people see themselves and others differently — turning insight into practical change, and strengthening relationships in ways that are both human and effective.
How We Work
Talks, workshops, coaching, and training that build practical skills and confidence for individuals and organisations.
Books, podcasts, curricula, and accessible content that deepen understanding of how people think, learn, relate, and grow.
Our Values
We lead with what people can do, not what they can't.
Every programme, resource, and interaction is designed with people at the core.
We translate research and complexity into clear, actionable understanding.
Change happens through connection — with self, with others, with community.
Why Transforming Lives
We bring together rigorous frameworks with deep human understanding — insights are not just theoretical, but lived and actionable.
We don't just inform — we equip. Our work shifts perspectives, builds capacity, and creates lasting change.
Neurodivergence is a core area, but our lens covers executive function, relationships, coaching, and all of how people grow.
The Person Behind The Work
Meet the Founder & CEO
Bringing lived experience, professional expertise, and a strengths-based lens to everything she does.
Her Story
Moonlake Lee is the Founder and CEO of Transforming Lives, a social enterprise focused on capability development and psychoeducation through a strengths-based lens. She is also the Founder of Unlocking ADHD, a registered IPC charity in Singapore that empowers ADHDers and their families to live life to the fullest.
Diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 50 — one year after her daughter received the same diagnosis — Moonlake brings both lived experience and strategic perspective to her work. Her background spans journalism, law, business, and technology law, and includes legal practice in Canada, entrepreneurship, angel investing, and social impact leadership.
Moonlake was a finalist for The Straits Times Singaporean of the Year 2022 in recognition of her contributions to the ADHD community. She is a member of the workgroup developing clinical practice guidelines for adult ADHD in Singapore and is training as an Executive Function Coach.
She was the Lead Editor for Differently Wired Minds, a SG60 commemorative book celebrating 60+ Singapore ADHDers, published by Unlocking ADHD, and is a contributing author for the upcoming book Parent First, ADHD Later, published by Transforming Lives.
Voices of Impact
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I just got diagnosed with ADHD in Feb this year at Age 38. I saw your CNA video a few years ago. Thanks to your courage of going public with your story, I finally mustered up mine to get assessed this year. It's been quite a ride, but my quality of life has improved tremendously.
Anonymous
After watching Moonlake's CNA feature
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Forever grateful to you, Moonlake Lee, for sharing your story on CNA. If not for your interview, I would never have been diagnosed and gotten the help I need to live a more aligned and joyful life.
Late-diagnosed female ADHDer
After watching Moonlake's CNA feature
What We Offer
Capability development, consultation & coaching, and psychoeducation — turning insight into action for individuals and organisations.
Capability Development
Practical, engaging programmes that help individuals and organisations develop the skills, mindsets, and behaviours to thrive.
Impactful, evidence-informed talks for conferences, organisations, schools, and community events.
Customised programmes that go beyond awareness into skill-building and practical application.
Expert facilitation for team conversations, strategy sessions, and professional development.
Practical programmes for parents navigating neurodivergence, executive function, and family dynamics.
Education and skills for individuals strengthening planning, focus, organisation, and self-regulation.
Neurodivergence awareness programmes for educators, HR teams, and managers.
Specialised training for professionals working with neurodivergent individuals.
Consultation & Coaching
One-to-one and small-group sessions providing tailored guidance, strategy, and support — helping individuals move forward with clarity and confidence. Full details coming soon.
Personalised sessions to understand your situation, explore options, and develop a practical way forward.
Structured coaching to strengthen planning, organisation, focus, and self-regulation in daily life.
Supportive coaching for parents navigating a child's neurodivergence diagnosis and the challenges that come with it.
Coaching and consultation details will be announced soon. Register your interest and we'll be in touch.
Psychoeducation
Accessible content and resources that build understanding for individuals, parents, professionals, and organisations.
Books and written resources that bring psychoeducation to wider audiences — from families and individuals to professionals and communities.
Online sessions and audio content making evidence-informed learning accessible and engaging.
Articles and written content exploring neurodivergence, executive function, relationships, and personal growth.
Who We Serve
Parents, individuals, and families navigating neurodivergence and personal growth.
Teachers and administrators building inclusive school communities.
HR leaders and managers creating neurodiverse-affirming environments.
Coaches, therapists, and allied health professionals deepening their practice.
Non-profits building inclusive services and programmes.
Participants in structured coaching or training seeking clarity and confidence.
Reach out and we'll help you find the right service for your needs.
Books & Resources
Accessible, evidence-informed books that bring psychoeducation to wider audiences — from families and individuals to professionals and communities.
The Support Seldom Talked About
What does it really look like to parent a teen with ADHD — especially when emotions run high and support feels hard to find? Based on the real lived experience of Singaporeans, this book sheds light on the emotional dynamics that shape family life.
Also included: sections on ADHD, parenting, and support resources contributed by Moonlake Lee, Founder of Unlocking ADHD and parent of an ADHD youth.
50% of net proceeds donated to support two ADHD charities — Unlocking ADHD and SPARK.
Visit the Book Website — Find Out More & Get Your Copy ↗Free & Curated
Guides, articles, tools, and references to help you, your family, or your organisation grow with greater clarity and confidence.
For Individuals & Families
A plain-language guide to what executive function is, why it matters, and how to support it.
Practical prompts to help parents have meaningful conversations with their neurodivergent children.
An introduction to strengths-based thinking and how it transforms support for children and adults.
For Educators & Professionals
A practical framework for schools and workplaces building genuinely inclusive environments.
Evidence-informed strategies to support students with executive function differences.
A manager's guide to understanding and unlocking the potential of neurodivergent team members.
Curated Reads
Our curated list of the most valuable books for parents, professionals, and individuals.
Our most listened-to podcast episodes on executive function — practical and accessible.
A concise overview of the research behind strengths-based approaches.
Weekly Newsletter
Moonlake Lee shares her lived experience and the resources to manage ADHD and thrive. Published weekly on LinkedIn.
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Latest
Part 2: a parent and parent coach's perspective on navigating emotional regulation in ADHD families.
Part 1: a psychiatrist's perspective on emotional regulation and what it means for people with ADHD.
Understanding emotional regulation in ADHD families — and how to navigate it together.
55 Articles
On Stage & In Conversation
Moonlake Lee is a sought-after speaker, facilitator, and panellist on neurodivergence, ADHD, executive function, and strengths-based approaches.
What Moonlake Speaks On
Every talk is tailored to the audience and context. Moonlake draws on lived experience, professional expertise, and evidence-based frameworks to deliver sessions that are both intellectually rigorous and deeply human.
Audiences
From corporate leadership teams and HR professionals to schools, community organisations, and media — every talk is tailored, evidence-informed, and grounded in lived experience.
Neurodiversity inclusion, executive function at work, strengths-based leadership, and building psychologically safe teams.
Understanding ADHD and neurodivergence in the classroom, supporting executive function, and working with families.
Parenting neurodivergent children, family communication, and practical strategies for everyday life.
Panel discussions, podcast appearances, and keynotes at conferences and public events.
A Track Record of Impact
Past events to be updated soon — check back shortly.
What's Coming Up
Upcoming events to be updated soon — check back shortly.
Book Moonlake
Moonlake is available for keynotes, workshops, panel discussions, podcast interviews, and facilitation — for corporate, school, community, and media contexts.
Every engagement begins with a conversation. Fill in the form and we will be in touch within 3–5 business days to discuss your event and how we can best serve your audience.
We respond to all enquiries within 3–5 business days.
Press & Media
Moonlake Lee featured in print, broadcast, and digital media across Singapore and beyond.
Coverage
Straits TimesArticle
Straits TimesArticle
ST HealthCheckPodcast
ST HealthCheckPodcast
CNAFeature
CNAFeature
CNAFeature
Salt & LightArticle
Rice MediaArticle
VogueArticle
Let's Talk
Every engagement begins with listening. Whether you have a specific project in mind or simply want to explore possibilities, we would love to hear from you.
Get in Touch
We work with individuals, families, schools, workplaces, and community organisations. Tell us what you're looking for and we'll find the best way forward.